Mamas, your single biggest problem is that you a LOT of times you give yourself up sexually to Papas with MASSIVE strings attached.
Most men spend their entire lives measuring their self-worth by “conquest” of women.
This is fuckin whack, and partially primitive, and for the most part men’s biggest issue.
You HAVE TO STOP giving up your “special place” in the hopes that by doing so, the Papa in question will now begin to act differently toward you. More “into” you emotionally.
SOOOOOOOO many times I have had this occur. I have communicated that I’m not in a place where I want a relationship or the compromise that comes with that now, and then crossed the line into the sexual with a girl, and then everything just gets fuckin different.
LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD:
“why haven’t you called”?
“we don’t hang out anymore?”
“How do u FEEL about us”?
“Where do you see this going”?
BIG BAD WOLF:
“Uh, we are goin, uh, to the movies later I hope?????”
I’ve had to also listen to a million girlFRIENDS stammer away at why things aren’t goin they way they thought they would. And this only happens AFTER they “give themselves” to whatever man they are after. Which is the problem…
MAMAS!!!! Only do something that YOU WANNA DO!!! Have sex with him cause YOU WANNA ENJOY THAT experience with that guy.
Don’t do it in the hopes that you will be able to “change his mind” about wanting to be in a relationship. It’s just gonna get you pissed, and slighted, and grumpy, and hurt.
Men typically tell you what they want. Women LOTS of times, translate it into a “CHALLENGE to tame him”. It doesn’t work.
So moral to the story….
ONLY FUCK WHEN YOU REALLY WANNA FUCK FOR YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU WANNA HAVE THAT EXPERIENCE FOR YOURSELF!!!!!
And we as simpleton Male creeps, need to really not maipulate when we know a woman is doing someting with string hangin off it.